LOVODEX.
Private Dating Record & Guide
“The books observe modern love.
LOVODEX keeps your record of it.”
From writing about recurring patterns to giving readers a private, on-device place to record their own. An instrument for sequence, clarity, and self-honesty when dating.
From observing the pattern to recording your own.
Across three memoirs and dozens of essays, the Aleks Filmore universe maps how modern romance fractures: the comedy of red flags, the haze of situationships, and the somatic aftermath of staying too long. But reading about another person’s pattern is recognition; seeing your own requires a record.
Essays, memoirs, and cultural criticism analyzing the recurring scripts of modern intimacy in hindsight.
A private, personal dating log keeping the exact sequence of events, notes, and notices as they unfold.
The Worst Boyfriends Ever
RECOGNITIONComic recognition of recurring people, dating disasters, and 25 recognizable boyfriend archetypes.
View Book I →ALMOST
THE IN-BETWEENA field guide identifying 14 ambiguous relationship arrangements and the psychology of staying too long.
View ALMOST →Terms of Living
AFTERMATHEssays on the aftermath of endings: what dignity conceals, how the body remembers, and unlearning shrinkage.
View Book II →LOVODEX
YOUR RECORDThe private mobile instrument. Where you record the dates, note the shifts in tone, and verify the evidence for yourself.
lovodex.com ↗* Note: LOVODEX is an instrument for personal reflection and factual logging. It does not diagnose, label, or profile users clinically.
What LOVODEX actually does.
A focused suite designed to help you keep track of your romantic life with clarity, humor, and quiet privacy.
Private Dating Records
Create a discrete, separate dossier for each person you date. Keep notes, ratings, and milestones in one secure place.
Timelines & Sequences
Track exactly when things happened. A chronological ledger of dates, conversations, promises, and shifts in frequency.
Notices
Log behavioral patterns and red flags as they happen, before memory smooths them over or explains them away.
The Receipt
An honest retrospective summary of any connection: what was invested, what was returned, and what it cost to stay.
100 Modern-Love Answers
Searchable editorial archive answering 100 hyper-specific modern dating questions with surgical clarity.
11 Field Guides
Structured strategies for navigating ambiguity, text anxiety, slow fades, mutual hostage situations, and early exits.
14 ALMOST Patterns
The illustrated taxonomy from ALMOST built directly into the app for effortless identification and pattern recognition.
25 TWBE Case Files
The satirical character profiles from The Worst Boyfriends Ever, available as an in-app reference library.
Your Wiring
Five self-reflection dimensions measuring your signal sensitivity, repair instinct, proximity need, and exit threshold.
Encrypted Backup & Audio
On-device AES encryption, Face ID / biometric app lock, and integrated audio essays for listening on the go.
The editorial universe lives inside LOVODEX.
LOVODEX is not an empty utility app. Aleks Filmore’s writing, character typologies, and visual artwork are integrated natively into its reference library.
The Situationship
Full intimacy without occupancy rights. Available in the 14-pattern guide.
The Gambler
Betting everything on the next conversation. Included in 25 character files.
The Orbit
Close enough to stay visible, far enough never to land. Illustrated in-app.
The Ghoster
Disappearing without a closing statement. From the comic dating taxonomy.
Your dating record belongs to you.
Romantic lives are intimate and vulnerable. LOVODEX was built with a privacy-first architecture so your records never leave your control.
- Private records stay on-device. Zero cloud scraping.
- No account required. Download and start immediately.
- No advertising or tracking SDKs. Never monetized with data.
- No AI reading private records. Your words remain yours.
LOVODEX.
Private Dating Record & Guide
Record what happened. Notice what repeats. You decide what it means.